Here's What My Parents' 30-Year Marriage Has Taught Me

Happy anniversary, you two!

They say the first year in a marriage is tough, but if you've got any relationship to look up to, it's a tad bit easy. We're seven months in our first year of marriage, and it's safe to say this because this has been my tool. More than once, I have observed myself just wondering what my parents would do if they were in a particular situation. Like any other textbook lesson, I have learned the 5 Ps from my parents' marriage, which are patience, perspective, playfulness, perseverance, and priority. Patience I am quickly learning patience is one of the important elements in any relationship, and both my parents have exercised it in different ways. It's not easy to adjust with someone, and at times, some patience really helps, which leads to the next point. Perspective Both my parents are headstrong, but they do respect each other's perspectives. It helps in appreciating the other person too. Playfulness They always have some playfulness about them, which I believe is their secret to happiness. Plus, it keeps the romance going. Perseverance Not letting go and striving for the best is the #couplegoals I have seen first-hand. Priority There were times when I was jealous of this, to be honest. I didn't understand why they had to be each other's number one. As an adult, I know better. I know we both have so much more to learn from you two, and this is just the beginning. Thank you so much for just being you, I guess. Love you both, Baba-Aai!

Love,

Rashmi B.